Joy, Julie and Jo woke early to go see the sunrise over the ocean and spend time with their own thoughts about Vince.
The calm before the storm, beautiful Farr Bay |
There's not really much to say about today's ride apart from that it was horrendous. Riding into headwinds and alongside side winds of 30 mph gusting to 40 mph was not fun and nor was the rain. Having said that though we both thought the conditions made the achievement all that more memorable.
On the way to our start today |
We were hugely thankful for deciding to ride the extra miles last night as we had done most of the difficult hills. The fact is that we probably would have had to walk up some of those in today's winds - at times today we were having to pedal downhill to keep our speed at 8 mph and at one point just before John O'Groats we had a gust of wind on a downhill section that almost stopped us completely. To go on will make us sound like wimps so we'll leave it there.
Our girls have been absolutely brilliant today, cheering us on at every lay-by with Union flags and shouts of Allez, Allez. We even saw Julie's famous highland twirl with flags aloft at one stage! They turned the grimace on our faces to huge grins every time and spurred us on.
Allez! Allez! |
Allez! Allez! |
You would have seen earlier in the blog that Vince asked if we would let him win the LEJOG ride but Jeff told him he would be in his back pocket. We couldn't let that be and held the photo jointly between us as we crossed the finishing line in John O'Groats together - a very emotional and special moment for us both as we shed tears for our mate. We know he would have loved that.
Almost there - photo at the ready |
As this is our last blog we wanted to finish with our individual thoughts on what the ride has meant to us:
JOY
Lands End to John O' Groats; we have done it! it was an amazing feat. I am so proud of Jeff and Ian: they have worked so hard; at their training, their planning and their execution of the challenge.
This challenge was called The Ride for Vince in honour of my husband. I feel privileged to have been part of the support team. I started the challenge with some trepidation as I was unsure how myself and Jules would manage the initial support job between us as those close to us will know that the pair of us can be a bit scatty at times and our driving and directional abilities are probably not the best you could ask for but I can honestly say that I am proud of what we achieved and more importantly I enjoyed the whole experience.
The other person who was key to this challenge was our friend Robin. Robin not only provided us with accurate and detailed daily weather forecasts and potential traffic/roadwork problems but he did so in such a humorous way that we all looked forward to receiving his bulletin each day.
So I would like to thank you all for following our blog which Jeff did at the end of each day however tired he was; I would like to thank you all for your comments and for your messages of support which meant so much to us when we finished each day and for the monetary contributions that you gave us.
I know one thing for sure, The Ride for Vince would never have happened if my husband was not such a special man.
JULIE
I have tried to think of words to describe these last 10 days, words that sum up the meaning of "the ride for Vince". So here goes:
Maps, navigation, wrong turns, lubrication, derrières, energy drinks, energy bars, early mornings, tired evenings, massage lotion, conversations, friendly and welcoming hosts, kind people, generous family and friends, generous strangers, stunning scenery, busy cities, planning, action, waiting patiently, tremendous efforts, aching limbs, wind, rain, sunshine, sandy bays, long winding roads, highland jigs, hunting rabbits, changing accents, crossing counties, flag waving, more wind and rain, laughter, tears and lots of pride.
10 incredible days with wonderful people, here and at Base Camp, and wonderful memories of and in memory of an incredible man, Vince xx.
IAN
I met Vince through an invitation from Jeff many years ago to attend the Varsity rugby match with Vince and the Old Wandsworthians Rugby Club. It became an annual ritual and from this first meeting I realised Vince was a kindred spirit. We remained great friends thereafter. Vince was a big man physically who also had a big heart, massive optimism and an unfailing sense of humour. These characteristics were never more evident than during Vince's illness. He bore it with amazing fortitude and a complete lack of bitterness that we would all hope to emulate if we were in similar,dire circumstances. I doubt if many of us could match him.
Several years ago Jeff mentioned the idea of a LEJOG trip. I was unsure I could do it and suggested I needed a year to get fit. As we all know Vince's illness put this on hold. When Jeff said he was doing LEJOG as a tribute to Vince I just had to do it as well. I was abroad when Vince passed away and never formally paid my respects to him. I felt LEJOG was a way to do it that Vince would have understood.
Thinking back now a day after finishing it all seems slightly unreal. It is only 11 days since we left Lands End and yet it seems a lifetime ago. The experience has reminded me of all the things in life that really matter: The love and support of friends and family; The lift from facing challenges together as a group and not alone; The kindness and generosity of strangers; Memories of loved ones past and present; The beauty and power of nature.
We shared lots of memories of Vince and others as we rode across the country or recovered in the evenings. It helped remind me that those we have lost may not be there in body but they're always there in soul, just a memory away. Hello Vince, how are you doing?
JEFF
Robin was the inspiration behind mine and Vince's original idea to do LEJOG and the Neuro Foundation would have been our charity. Robin has said many times that he would have loved to have been with us - the fact is that he was there with us every pedal turn of the way alongside Vince. Robin you are one of the most inspirational people I have ever known and it is my honour to have you as my friend.
Ian and I shared so many moments and memories not least of which was the emotion as we finished the ride with the photo of Vince held in front and jointly between us - those tears were very special. I don't think I could have done this without Ian and the fun and pleasure I've had just chatting and being part of a 2 man cycle team with him was brilliant. You are truly a great friend.
Julie and Joy have been absolutely brilliant as a support crew. Fetching, carrying, massaging, refuelling, providing so many humorous moments and taking care of all our needs - it was nigh on Tour De France standard! It would have been impossible to do this without them and I can't thank them both enough. If there is anyone out there looking for support crew on their next challenge you know where to come.
Jo and Jill gave us a huge uplift when they joined us and the support they gave with Joy and Julie on our last day with their cries of Allez! Allez! when waving Union Flags at every lay-by got us through the horrendous conditions. A special word for Jo - you light up my life when I see you and I've never been prouder of you than I have this year.
I've been amazed by the kindness and generosity of people who supported us throughout the whole venture from starting the planning to finishing today and for that I thank you all. Lastly, I must say a special word for those who have left messages of encouragement on our daily blogs - you will never know how much that spurred us on but it really did.
Vince was my brother in law and one of my greatest friends. We never get over the hurt of losing someone we love but we do get through it and this ride has been a big part of that process for me as it was the last promise I made to Vince before he left us. Vince you were there with me the whole way through and I hope I've made you proud, especially as I let you win.